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It is Up to You by Jim RohnIt is Up to You by Jim Rohn Here's one of my favorite messages from Jim Rohn: One of the first things successful people realize is the old adage, "if it is to be, it is up to me." That is, for you, the fact that your success and...

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It is Up to You by Jim Rohn

Category : Jim Rohn, Responsibility

Here’s one of my favorite messages from Jim Rohn:

One of the first things successful people realize is the old adage, “if it is to be, it is up to me.” That is, for you, the fact that your success and your course is up to you. This doesn’t mean that you do it all alone. It simply means that you take responsibility for your life and your career.

Too many people today look at opportunity and figure it is up to someone else to make sure they get it. They look at financial security and hope that the government will make sure they live safely in retirement or in case of disability. They wait and wait, figuring that it is up to someone else. And then the wait is over, and it is too late to do anything. Their life is over and they are filled with regret.

This isn’t true for you however. You know that you must take responsibility for your life. It is up to you.

The fact is that nobody else is going to do it for you “you must do it yourself”.

Now, some people may say, “Jim, that’s a lot of responsibility.” Friends, that is the best news you can ever hear. You get to choose your life. Hundreds of millions of people all around this world would give anything to live in the situation you do “just for the chance to have the opportunity to take control of their destiny. “It is up to you” is a great blessing!

Here’s why:

  1. You get to chart your own destiny. Maybe you want to start a small business and stay there. That’s great because you can choose that. Maybe you want to create a small chain of stores. Maybe you want to have a net worth of $100 million. That’s okay too. The idea is that you get to choose. You can do whatever you like. Different people have different dreams and they should live them accordingly.
  2. You can reap what you sow. Sleep in and go to work late and reap the return. Or get up early and outwork the others and earn a greater return. Place your capital at risk and earn a return “or place it at greater risk and perhaps reap a greater return. You decide what you will sow and thus what you will reap.
  3. No one else can stop you from getting your dream. Yes, there will always be things that come up and people who may not like what you are doing, but you can just move on and chart your own course. There is great freedom in that.
  4. You experience the joy of self-determination. There is no greater pride than knowing you set your mind on something and accomplished it. Those who live with a victim mentality never get to experience the joy of accomplishment because they are always waiting for someone else to come to the rescue. Those who take responsibility get to live the joy of seeing a job well done.

Let me ask you a question: Where will you be in 5 years? 10 years? Or 25 years? Do you know? DO you have an idea? Have you ever dreamed about it or set a goal for it? Are you willing to take responsibility and recognize that, “It is up to you?”

You will be wherever you decide to be in those timeframes. You decide. It is up to you.

And that is very exciting!

— Jim Rohn

If you’re ready to take responsibility for your life, give me a call at (215) 268-6696. Let’s talk.

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Quotes by Jim Rohn, America’s Foremost Business Philosopher, reprinted with permission from Jim Rohn International ©2011.
As a world-renowned author and success expert, Jim Rohn touched millions of lives during his 46-year career as a motivational speaker and messenger of positive life change. For more information on Jim and his popular personal achievement resources or to subscribe to the weekly Jim Rohn Newsletter, visit www.JimRohn.com

Don’t Take Advantage of Others!

Category : Health and Happiness, Integrity, Mastermind

Meditation for today, November 6th, 2011

Did you cheat the other fellow or yourself? Think carefully before you answer

When you are dishonest in your dealings with others or when you take advantage of them, you cheat yourself more than you cheat them. They may regret their dealings with you for a time, but they will eventually get over it and move on to other things. You, on the other hand, must live with your behavior for the rest of your life. In your heart, you will know the truth about what kind of person you are.
Everyone is occasionally tempted to take advantage of others. If they are dumb enough to get themselves into the situation, the thinking goes, they deserve what they get. In reality, however, when you are fair and honest with a person of whom you could have taken advantage, you become a better person.

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From the book Napoleon Hill’s Positive Action Plan: 365 Meditations For Making Each Day a Success.
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Don’t Judge Others Before Judging Yourself!

Category : Health and Happiness, Mastermind

Meditation for today, November 5th, 2011

How can you judge others accurately if you have not learned to judge yourself accurately?

The ability to evaluate yourself and your performance objectively is critical to your relationships with others and will have an enormous impact upon the level of success you achieve during your lifetime. Unless you can honestly evaluate your strengths and weaknesses, how can you ever expect to improve your performance? You must determine where you are before you can develop a plan to get you where you would like to be.
If you were an independent, dispassionate observer, what advice would you give to yourself to improve your skills, your work habits, your interaction with others, and your contribution to the organization? Honesty about yourself is the first step toward self-improvement.

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From the book Napoleon Hill’s Positive Action Plan: 365 Meditations For Making Each Day a Success.
Copyright © Napoleon Hill Foundation 1995, 2007

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Excuses Don’t Get The Job Done!

Category : Health and Happiness, Mastermind




Meditation for today, November 4th, 2011

There is always a shortage of people who get the job done on time without excuses or grumbling.

If you really study those who have reached the top of any organization, you will find that they are the people who cheerfully accept challenges, take the initiative, and get the job done. They don’t complain, and they don’t make excuses. Those who never get anywhere in their jobs and careers can’t seem to understand that achievers don’t become achievers after they reach the top. They reached the top because of the way they conducted themselves along the way.
You can easily become one of those individuals who regularly advance in the organization — if you are willing to pay the price. Any good manager will tell you that the type of people who are most in demand are those who can think for themselves, who will take the initiative to do the right thing without being told, and who will stick to the job until it is finished. You can be one of those people if you choose to be.

To Your Success!

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From the book Napoleon Hill’s Positive Action Plan: 365 Meditations For Making Each Day a Success.
Copyright © Napoleon Hill Foundation 1995, 2007

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What Are You Looking For in Others?

Category : Health and Happiness, Mastermind


Meditation for today, November 3rd, 2011

You can always see in others whatever traits of character you are looking for.

Margaret Wolfe Hungerford said, “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.” It was her way of saying that we see what we wish to see in others. Every living human being is a complex combination of feelings, emotions, and thoughts — some good, some bad. Your impression of another depends far more upon you and your expectations of that person. If you believe someone is good, you will find good qualities. If you don?t, you won’t.
When you are yourself a positive person, you tend to find positive qualities in others. As you work to develop good, constructive habits to improve yourself continually, make it a practice to look for those same qualities in others. It’s easy to spot another’s shortcomings, but when you identify the good in others and congratulate them upon their positive achievements, you will make friends on whom you can always depend — both in good times and bad.

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From the book Napoleon Hill’s Positive Action Plan: 365 Meditations For Making Each Day a Success.
Copyright © Napoleon Hill Foundation 1995, 2007

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Your Reaction is What Counts!

Category : Health and Happiness, Mastermind


Meditation for today, November 2nd, 2011

You can’t control others’ acts, but you can control your reaction to their acts, and that is what counts most to you.

No one can make you feel any negative emotion — fear, anger, or inferiority — without your express permission. There will always be people who find perverse enjoyment in upsetting others, or who simply play upon your emotions so that they can use you for their own selfish purposes. Whether or not they are successful depends entirely upon you and how you react to their negative behaviors.
When you are forced to deal with such people, recognize from the outset that they are trying to upset you, not because of something you may have done to them, but because of some problem they have with themselves. Tell yourself, “This isn’t about me. I will not allow this person to upset me. I am in control of my emotions and my life.”

To Your Success!

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From the book Napoleon Hill’s Positive Action Plan: 365 Meditations For Making Each Day a Success.
Copyright © Napoleon Hill Foundation 1995, 2007

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How Do You View Yourself?

Category : Health and Happiness

Meditation for today, November 1st, 2011

Your Mental Attitude is the most dependable key to your personality.

Your view of yourself will greatly influence how others percieve you. If you are a confident, cheerful, positive person, your co-workers, friends and family will be attracted to your personality. If you are unhappy, negtive, and always complaining about your situation, others will be repelled. Even when at times you don’t feel very happy, by forcing yourself to behave in a positive fashion, you will find that you soon feel genuinely upbeat, because your subconscious mind doesn’t know the difference between an artificial emotion and the real thing. When you behave positively, you will positively influence everyone around you — including yourself.

To Your Success!

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From the book Napoleon Hill’s Positive Action Plan: 365 Meditations For Making Each Day a Success.
Copyright © Napoleon Hill Foundation 1995, 2007

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A Few Dos and Don’ts for Twitter

Category : Twitter

Some people consistently write Twitter posts that inform, break news, engage, or raise thoughtful questions.

Others tell us what they’re having for lunch or when they’re going to work out. Or what cute thing their cat is doing now. Yawn.






Here’s my short list of Dos and Don’ts for success on Twitter:

Do:

  • Be polite
  • Link to interesting articles, sites, blog posts.
  • Answer and ask questions.
  • Include links in as many of your posts as possible.
  • Pick up the phone and call those with whom you interact often.

Don’t:

  • Don’t be pedantic. We don’t care what you’re eating for lunch, or that you just woke up.
  • Don’t use Twitter just to pimp your blog posts.
  • Don’t over-tweet. If you need half a dozen tweets to make your point, do one that points to a blog post.
  • Don’t share breaking news that you can’t confirm.
  • Don’t be dull or boring.

To Your Success,

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