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Visalus Distributors - A Word of Caution!Visalus Distributors - A Word of Caution! Interesting news development today. Blyth, Inc., a publicly traded company has just completed the 3rd of 4 phases in the acquisition of Visalus. Here's the news article talking about the acquisition:...

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The Money is in the List! - Wrong!The Money is in the List! - Wrong! I know you've been told this countless times... The money is in the list! Is that really true? Or is your list nothing more than a bunch of names? I'm going to venture out on a limb and tell you...

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It is Up to You by Jim RohnIt is Up to You by Jim Rohn Here's one of my favorite messages from Jim Rohn: One of the first things successful people realize is the old adage, "if it is to be, it is up to me." That is, for you, the fact that your success and...

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What To Say To The Product-Driven Prospect

Category : Prospecting

I was talking to Michael Dlouhy the other day, and asked him how he handles people who only want to be in company with the greatest product since sliced bread.

Here’s his answer:

If you’ve been in network marketing very long, you’ve run into plenty of prospects who are totally focused on ONLY joining a company where they can sell a product they love.

I tell them, “Look. We have 30 products. You don’t have to use them all. You don’t even have to like them all. Matter of fact, we have a Woman’s Formula that helps balance out the hormones. Guess what? I don’t use the product. I don’t use that one. My wife does. She loves it. We’ve got hundreds of women who buy that product. They love it. I don’t have to use it.”

And That Makes Them Realize How Stupid It Is -

- that they have to love the product. Right there. And if it’s a woman – guess what?¬ Our company¬ has a Men’s Formula! It’s for the prostate.

And last time you checked, you didn’t have a prostate, because you’re a girl. But guess what? I’ve got a lot of guys that buy that product.

Another one I’ll talk about is our product that helps balance blood-sugar. I ask them, “Do you know anyone who has hypoglycemia, diabetes, low blood sugar, a sugar problem?”

“Yeah.”

“Great. Do you think that person would like to know about a product that’s all-natural, it’s been proven to help re-build the pancreas, and¬ will help them to use less insulin, and maybe even get them off of insulin?”

“Oh, yeah!”

You Don’t Have To Have Diabetes To Sell the Product, Do You?

Make it so ridiculous, they get it. I’m telling you, this is magic. People will come to you and they’re totally focused on finding a product that THEY love.

But that is NOT the way to build a long-term, successful, profitable business. When I hear that, I’ll tell them, “Well, then, go get diabetes. Go get diabetes, and this stuff will help you fix it. OK?

And of course, they laugh. It’s a ridiculous solution. But it makes them realize that the attitude that they MUST love the product is also ridiculous.

To get them into your company, tell them why YOU joined. Why did you join this company, this team, this sponsor.

I did a call the other day with a lady who is married to a heart surgeon. If I told you what they have to pay in insurance for him to stay in that business, it would blow your mind. Basically, he’s working for the insurance company.

So they need another income. They have to get something going. The first thing she said was, “Well, I’ll have to try the products first to see if I like them.”

And I went right into the Women’s Formula. I went right into diabetes. And I asked her,

“Do you have diabetes?”

She said, “No.”

I told her, “Well, you don’t have to go and get diabetes to sell a bunch of this product.”

And she got it. She joined on the spot. She figured she’d just try the product but instead, she got the idea. Now she’s in the business.

Do I ask people to join? Do I push them? Do I twist their arm? Do I say, “Get in now and you’ll be rich by Tuesday?”

No. I present the case for my company & our team. The prospect makes their own decision. Mostly, they ASK if they can join. It comes from THEM. How could anything be more powerful?

Sometimes you just have to make them beg.

To Your Success, Because Your Success Matters!

David Haines
(215) 268-6696 Anytime!

Celebrate Being Independent From Fear!

Category : Facing Fear

In honor of Independence Day, I would like to share with you an article from The Daily Love by Mastin Kipp. I hope you really get this!

You can read about Mastin, The Daily Love, and why it exists here: About The Daily Love.

Today I wanted to pay forward some of Mastin’s Brilliance. If you haven’t subscribed to The Daily Love yet, you should. It’s really good.

Onward….

As Einstein said, there are two ways to look at the world: as though everything is a miracle or as if nothing is a miracle. He deduced that we can’t pick and choose if one thing is a miracle and something else isn’t based on the limits of human reason, we have these choices.

Another way to put this is that we have two perceptions through which to look out at the world with: Love or fear. There are the basic two lenses that we can see the world with. And it is impossible to look with the eyes of Love and think a fearful thought and it is impossible to look with the eyes of fear and think a Loving thought.

Love = A miracle. Fear = no miracle.

So, today, July 4th in America is about celebrating our independence. We liberated ourselves from an oppressive force that didn’t want us to be free. We took our power back and created a free country where we have a basic human right to pursue our own happiness.

Read the rest of the article here at The Daily Love – Celebrate Being Independent From Fear!

I want to truly thank Mastin for his daily inspiration and genius. I will never miss my dose of Daily Love!!

To Your Success, Because Your Success Matters!

David Haines
(215) 268-6696 Anytime!

**Mastin Kipp is the CEO and Founder of The Daily Love. Follow him on Twitter.

Let Go And Let Love Decide

Category : Daily Love

I am subscribed to an Awesomely Awesome Blog called The Daily Love. It’s written by a guy name Mastin Kipp. You can read about Mastin, The Daily Love, and why it exists here: About The Daily Love

Today I wanted to pay forward some of Mastin’s Brilliance. If you haven’t subscribed to The Daily Love yet, you should. It’s really good.

Onward….

Love is letting go.

Period.

It’s the Energy of Love that binds The Uni-verse together. Love is what breathes life into us and gives all living things this chance to be alive.

One of the most Loving things that we’ve been given from our Creator is the gift of choice. Choice is a fundamental part of life. Free will is one of our Creator’s greatest gifts to us.

Free will boils down to this: you can choose to connect to Love, or not.

Since we’ve been given the privilege to choose for ourselves, that means if you Love someone, you must give him or her that privilege. Trying to force or manipulate Love never works – it’ll only backfire.

Read the rest of the article here at The Daily Love – Let Go And Let Love Decide

I want to truly thank Mastin for his daily inspiration and genius. I will never miss my dose of Daily Love!!

To Your Success, Because Your Success Matters!

David Haines
(215) 268-6696 Anytime!

**Mastin Kipp is the CEO and Founder of The Daily Love. To follow him on Twitter click here.

Wealth, Success or Love?

Category : Motivational

I heard this great story and wanted to share with everyone.

A woman came out of her house and saw three old men with long white beards sitting in her front yard.

She did not recognize them. She said, “I don’t think I know you, but you must be hungry. Please come in and have something to eat.”

“Is the man of the house home?” they asked. “No”, she said. “He’s out.”

“Then we cannot come in”, they replied.

In the evening when her husband came home, she told him what had happened. “Go tell them I am home and invite them in,” he said.

The woman went out and invited the men in. “We do not go into a house together,” they replied.

“Why is that?” she wanted to know.

One of the old men explained: “His name is Wealth,” he said pointing to one of his friends, and said pointing to another one, “He is Success, and I am Love.” Then he added, “Now go in and discuss with your husband which one of us you want in your home.”

The woman went in and told her husband what was said. Her husband was overjoyed.

“How nice!” he said. “Since that is the case, let us invite Wealth. Let him come and fill our home with wealth!”

His wife disagreed. “My dear, why don’t we invite Success?” Their daughter-in-law was listening from the other corner of the house. She jumped in with her own suggestion: “Would it not be better to invite Love? Our home will then be filled with love!”

“Let us heed our daughter-in-law’s advice,” said the husband to his wife. “Go out and invite Love to be our guest.”

The woman went out and asked the three old men, “Which one of you is Love? Please come in and be our guest.” Love got up and started walking toward the house. The other two also got up and followed him.

Surprised, the lady asked Wealth and Success: “I only invited Love, why are you coming in?” The old men replied together: “If you had invited Wealth or Success, the other two of us would’ve stayed out, but since you invited Love, wherever He goes, we go with him.

Wherever there is Love, there is also Wealth and Success!”

How true is that?

To Your Success, Because Your Success Matters!

David Haines
(215) 268-6696 Anytime!