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Aug

20

2010

My Dreams are Not Yours to Take!

Posted by David Haines | Comments (2)

Category : Breakthrough

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You’re always telling me that my dreams will never come true.

You’re always telling me That my decisions are stupid and a waste of time.

You’re always putting down my successes as temporary or meaningless.

You’re always trying to scare me out of doing important things.

You’re always trying to convince me my goals are too hard and unachievable.

You’re always giving me hundreds of reasons why I will fail.


You’re always trying to convince me that success is for other people. That I’m not worthy.

You’re always trying to distract me from doing things I need to do by enticing me to do other fun stuff.

You’re always trying to make me put things off until they are too late.

You’re always putting me down.

You’re always telling me to stay on the safe path and not take chances.

You know what?

I’m through with you! I’m not listening to you any longer!

This is MY life, not yours! I make the decisions, not you!

You don’t control my life!!

My dreams will come true!
My decisions aren’t stupid!
My successes are lasting and forever!
I will do the important things in spite of you!
My goals are achievable and I will attain them!
I WILL NOT fail. I refuse to!
I am worthy of success! I was born with the right!
I will not be distracted by meaningless things!
I will not procrastinate any longer!
I will not let you put me down. I deserve better!
I will not stay on the safe path. I want to grow, and unless I try new things, I will always stay the same!

From this day forward I control my thoughts, my actions and my future!

From this day forward I will be who I was meant to be.

So get out of my way and leave me alone! You will no longer hold me hostage!!!

This is a letter I wrote to myself, more specifically to my fear. Since that day, amazing things have happened and I’ve grown and succeeded beyond my wildest dreams.

Don’t let your fears control you. You deserve everything this life has to offer. Just think about what you would do if you weren’t afraid. You’ll amaze yourself!

To Your Success, Because Your Success Matters!

David Haines
(215) 268-6696 Anytime!

Aug

18

2010

You Can Train Your Thoughts Like You’d Train a Dog

Posted by David Haines | Comments (6)

Category : Personal Development

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Train your thoughts like you’d train a dog?

Does that sound ridiculous? OK. Look at it this way. Your thoughts come from a combination of your background & environment, your life experience, and your observations. And the way you look at each of those is entirely under your control.

You’ve probably noticed that things change out there in the world. Life can be very unpredictable at times. And yet the biggest problem most people have is that they expect they will get the same bad results in the future as they got last week – or 20 years ago.


You can train your brain to think the way you want it to, to achieve the best Network Marketing results. And you must. Train yourself to focus better, and you will be a different person. Set a goal of making faster decisions – maybe put yourself on a timer for tough decisions, so you don’t stew over them.

Right or wrong, just go ahead. You will become a more effective & happier person.

A lot of people think they need more information to make a decision. In the real world, you often still make the wrong choice even with a lot more information. So you’re better off to just make a choice, execute it, find out if it’s right or wrong, and then keep going or change course, based on the feedback you get from life.

That is a LOT like you’d train a dog. It’s very simple. Just take the same attitude toward your own mind. Put yourself in charge, and tell it what to do. Your life goes a lot better that way.