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Are You Building a Business, Church Group or Political Party?Are You Building a Business, Church Group or Political... Are you building a business, a church group or political party? I really love election season! It gives me a chance to pare down my friends list on Facebook. It’s the time of year when all the...

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Visalus Distributors - A Word of Caution!Visalus Distributors - A Word of Caution! Interesting news development today. Blyth, Inc., a publicly traded company has just completed the 3rd of 4 phases in the acquisition of Visalus. Here's the news article talking about the acquisition:...

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Relationship Building Skills - Attention to Detail In Relationship Building - The Little Things Are Important We are in a Relationship Building Business and some of the most important things are the little things. We are, from the very start of...

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The Money is in the List! - Wrong!The Money is in the List! - Wrong! I know you've been told this countless times... The money is in the list! Is that really true? Or is your list nothing more than a bunch of names? I'm going to venture out on a limb and tell you...

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It is Up to You by Jim RohnIt is Up to You by Jim Rohn Here's one of my favorite messages from Jim Rohn: One of the first things successful people realize is the old adage, "if it is to be, it is up to me." That is, for you, the fact that your success and...

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I Cried So Hard I Couldn’t Drive!

Category : Breakthrough, Responsibility, Service, Value

I’ve been getting a lot of questions about why I use Mentoring for Free, so I thought I’d take a few minutes and share my reasons.

When I started with Mentoring For Free, I thought I knew what it was all about. But there’s a big difference between knowing and “KNOWING”. Let me explain.

I’ve been following the system or “recipe” as outlined by my Mentor Emmanuel Padilla to generate leads and calling them, plugging them into the system, Scheduling Coaching Calls, etc.

Works beautifully.

Well, a strange thing happened a few months ago. I received a “Why” from a young lady. It was beautiful. Heartfelt. Sincere. And all of a sudden I was crying. I was out at the time and I cried the whole drive home. I’m surprised that I didn’t get into an accident. I could barely see.

I didn’t necessarily cry over what she wrote, I cried because I realized that these aren’t “Leads” or “Prospects”, they’re living, breathing People with hopes and dreams and goals and desires. And they’re trusting ME to help them. They’re sharing deep personal feelings with me. I am humbled to say the least.

And then it hit me. What an awesome responsibility that we have to these people! This is not a game. Mentoring For Free is not just a lead generating system. It’s not just training. It’s a way to serve. It’s a way to connect with people on a different level. I mean, you can even say it’s a salvation. At least for some people it is.

What’s so exciting about this, is the fact that once it “hit me” everything changed. It’s no longer about getting leads. It’s about giving and sharing what I know, what we know, to help another human being fulfill their dreams. What could be better than that? The feeling I get when someone has success with a technique I’ve shown them or even the feeling of hope that arises when a person realizes there is someone out there willing to take the time to help them. It’s amazing!

What’s funny, is it seems like the Universe has noticed and said “He finally gets it” and I have more people coming to me asking for help than I did before. It’s like the universe said “He’s ready, let’s give him some people to help.”

I mean, I’ve changed nothing in my actions. I do the same things I did from the beginning. And people are “showing up” asking for help.

I don’t know how I can ever express my gratitude to Michael Dlouhy for developing Mentoring For Free and sharing it with the world. I’m only touched by a small part of it within my own circle of influence. I can’t begin to imagine how he must feel, helping as many people as he does. How does his heart not burst from the joy?

So I want to send a public thank you to Michael Dlouhy from the bottom of my heart for allowing me the opportunity to “get it”. My life has forever been changed for the better.

To Your Success, Because Your Success Matters!

David Haines
(215) 268-6696 Anytime!

My Dreams are Not Yours to Take!

Category : Breakthrough

You’re always telling me that my dreams will never come true.

You’re always telling me That my decisions are stupid and a waste of time.

You’re always putting down my successes as temporary or meaningless.

You’re always trying to scare me out of doing important things.

You’re always trying to convince me my goals are too hard and unachievable.

You’re always giving me hundreds of reasons why I will fail.


You’re always trying to convince me that success is for other people. That I’m not worthy.

You’re always trying to distract me from doing things I need to do by enticing me to do other fun stuff.

You’re always trying to make me put things off until they are too late.

You’re always putting me down.

You’re always telling me to stay on the safe path and not take chances.

You know what?

I’m through with you! I’m not listening to you any longer!

This is MY life, not yours! I make the decisions, not you!

You don’t control my life!!

My dreams will come true!
My decisions aren’t stupid!
My successes are lasting and forever!
I will do the important things in spite of you!
My goals are achievable and I will attain them!
I WILL NOT fail. I refuse to!
I am worthy of success! I was born with the right!
I will not be distracted by meaningless things!
I will not procrastinate any longer!
I will not let you put me down. I deserve better!
I will not stay on the safe path. I want to grow, and unless I try new things, I will always stay the same!

From this day forward I control my thoughts, my actions and my future!

From this day forward I will be who I was meant to be.

So get out of my way and leave me alone! You will no longer hold me hostage!!!

This is a letter I wrote to myself, more specifically to my fear. Since that day, amazing things have happened and I’ve grown and succeeded beyond my wildest dreams.

Don’t let your fears control you. You deserve everything this life has to offer. Just think about what you would do if you weren’t afraid. You’ll amaze yourself!

To Your Success, Because Your Success Matters!

David Haines
(215) 268-6696 Anytime!

Watch Breakthrough with Tony Robbins Tuesday 7/27/2010

Category : Breakthrough, Tony Robbins

A Breakthrough is a moment in time when the impossible becomes possible. When something happens that shapes you, that moves you. Maybe you meet someone that inspires you. Maybe it’s a tool or a strategy that you learn. Maybe you finally get so fed up you won’t settle for the life that you have any more. It’s when something inside of you clicks and everything changes. You take massive action and you transform your life.

We’re living in extraordinarily difficult times. Every day we read and experience more tragedy. We’re focused on things we can’t control, whether it’s the economy, the oil spill or unemployment. Here’s a chance for you, your friends and family to witness how quickly a life can change for the better. For the first time on Prime Time television, Tony is demonstrating how to take good people who got a raw deal, whose lives have been seemingly crushed, on a 30-day journey of complete transformation.

You have just six opportunities to see how the impossible becomes possible. Experience your Breakthrough starting Tuesday, July 27 at 8/7 CST on NBC.



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Don’t miss this Extraordinary Television Event, Tuesday, July 27, 2010.

To Your Success, Because Your Success Matters!

David Haines
(215) 268-6696 Anytime!



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